Since childhood we are taught to obey. We unlearn systematically to disregard our own feelings. That began to often as a baby, if our screams were for closeness, warmth, love, etc. are not recognized and ignored. It was deep wounds within us, because we learned to ignore. As a small child it went on. For only "if ... then" we got something. We were nice and behaved, he said: "So you're sweet. But you also get a lollipop. " Or something like that. Our behavior is often seen as an attack against the dominant adults in their world, children not listed or just children who do not know what they are doing. We often heard: "You want me just to test and tease." We did not feel understood.
"works" we do not - we wanted to "enforce" us (actually our needs) and ask for recognition, which may be similar in temper tantrums became noticeable ... if we ever dared even to do something - we were punished (with the withdrawal of love, food deprivation, "scolding" or even beating). So we assumed that the world How it works well. Put pressure is probably correct and ok, we learned. Say Yes to love and be thinking not only. Answers to our questions posed inwardly question everything, we could expect only a few - if any. (Later, we received so threatening or suppress.) Confidence in ourselves and in the (re) world only the fittest that was sinking ever deeper or died altogether.
were in kindergarten and at school we further trimmed. There it was explained to us what we should all know when. It has taken no consideration that some wanted / r may learn to read until two years later (could that could be given of the development of her very different things). The "important" knowledge has been instilled in us ... that to be intuitive, universal (that which exists anyway everywhere around us and waiting for us even discovered, recognized and called - by nature - and not by false textbooks !) became more and more removed from our lives. Or was it all tactics? If one were to employ us, so we just do not unpack this knowledge, what we all bring to the earth?
As Teenager we stood there and often did not know what to do. How should they, us, our feeling - our destiny - abtrainiert from childhood. our way we could never go because it was as wrong and poorly explained .. and time and support we had not to follow it.
For lunch, there were many things that made us sick, but on our bodies we could not hear, because it was said: "Only when you've eaten ...." threats of all kinds were on the agenda. Consequences, we should learn - it is always followed by something bad (something is taken away or denied), if you do not classify wanted to cry because the interior.
And who, after many years still has the courage to follow his feeling was, talking to the conscience: "Thus you can earn any money. . Werd what reasonable "Translated: The company" State " needs you somewhere else. How it looked in us, did not care. We were able to rear up like us ... we wanted to be "bitchy" or show other patterns to make up to us and our knowledge carefully. Pupertäres behavior came at a more or less out - the last gasp before being caught as an adult is?
It did mostly nothing. All arguments were against us. Now we are adults, try to make it even better. We try to recover and to support our children on their way - have confidence in is all because it's good. Because God, the universe, the sole energy have made it to perfection ... and people will do to her. Often, we struggle against patterns. We eat because we are looking for love. Cram things in us clean that our bodies do hurt. We still fight against it ... try to defend ourselves and accountability. We often get the feel of the outside world, shaking his head with incomprehension or even youth office, etc. rushes to the neck.
does the state - the system is built on power, on materialism. How to take the slaves to the State (home school in which you and the children can not absorb all the "know" what is wrong often does not ... and for many is totally unimportant, as their path takes you somewhere else) ? Outrageous, is not it? Or literally dangerous to the state, would even so his "slaves" get lost - would finally start to think again.
The children would live again on their knowledge and go out of themselves their way to live, what they came here. A life to make this beautiful planet. And yes, do they need all our support, they may have of us. Because this world has been brought up hostile - from the state. Everywhere, physicians, institutions, authorities, etc. designed to keep everything under control, finding a lack of crippling the valuable ideas and deal with (so as not to "dumb idea" . Come Or are they in the end not that stupid?) To spread the desired state of knowledge, which is far from truthful.
The nice thing is there are more to awake from the hypnotic state. The time is ripe and we begin to perceive us to change ... together to tread this path and to strengthen us. :) We take our lives back into their own hands and help our children.
yourselves always clear how your children treated. Threats are not only the negative (eg fear of exercise), no, the positive "You get ... only when you do this or that. "belonging to and manipulate. But how to lead his children without to force them? Well, this is only by example, and the inner wisdom you carry within you and your children to safety. Learn more about this next time I'm very very grateful to my children that they always show me where it is going wrong and where I can improve myself. This gives us an intimate connection, which is to be destroyed by anything.
nochwas: This text should not be to bad you feel anger or push against your parents. No, this is a wake-just, call you to go with open eyes through the world ... to trust your children and you! Be thankful for your parents because they did only what they thought was right and had / you have very nice ... so as you love your children now (or will love - for those who do not have any). They were also in the system "forced" in many cases even more severe than we do. They are often even more trapped in these destructive patterns. Thanks to them the whole, but was already slowly turned to the contrary. They paved our way, made us aware of what is going wrong.
Now it is up to us to continue on the right track - even if it meets with resistance and will not be understood by all. As long as our heart to say yes, it is true, because the heart is connected with the universal love. We are a part of it. Lives and loves you. Take you so like you are. You are so ok. We are all human and we have our good and not so good sides. But when we wake, we have the possibility to work on us and so accessible to heal more ... in and around us:). Back to nature - our true home. Have fun! Your Sonja
